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The Secret

The Secret is a theory that became popular of the last few years. Its theory has emphasis on positive thinking and living your best life through the idea of the law of attraction. In general, it means people can attract a better life for themselves!

The phrase Law of Attraction has been used by writers, although the actual definition varies. Most authors associate the Law of Attraction with a theory that "like attracts like", usually in reference to the mental life. The principle is based on the concept that a person's thoughts (conscious and unconscious), emotions, beliefs and actions attract corresponding positive or negative experiences.

This concept basically says that the energy you put into the world—both good and bad—is exactly what comes back to you. This means you create the circumstances of your life with the choices you make every day.

One way of practicing the theory of The Secret is using visualization. Visual what you want to happen in your life, career and so on. Visualization works. Create a vision board. It will be a type of visual and verbal articulation of your goals. Another way is selective attention. If you repeat the word red when you look around all the red items will stand out to you. It’s the same as the goals. Also you can surround yourself with people with positive energy instead of people who bring negative energy. One more. If you overly want for something, you are clinging. Just ask for it and surrender. When you hold on to the energy too tightly you are not allowing it to manifest.

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