Apearl's Blog

The hardest part of dating is getting use to the person you’re seeing. We all have habits and traits that others dislike. On top of learning regular stuff about them, you have to learn how to deal with the traits you do not like very much. Trying to figure out if there are more good traits than annoying. Or if you should chop it up as a lost and move on. Even deciding to move on can be confusing. What things determine when to do so. Right now I am going out and having fun. I would like to date someone that has the traits I would like in next significant other. Just in case it becomes a relationship. At the same time I am not sure if I am finished looking to see what else is out there. I do not want to make the steps toward a relationship when I am not sure if I want to be in one. Right now I feel like I am currently making those steps with the man I am seeing. I don’t think it’s obvious steps, but we’re a few months into seeing each other. There is daily communication by in

I am perfectly imperfect. This is who I am. I am not perfect but that doesn’t mean I am not the best me I can be. I curse. I don’t like mushrooms. I sleep late. I like to play my music very loud. I don’t like bananas. I have a short patience. I love to shop. I can get mad easily. I like to drink Dr. Pepper & Midori Sours. I love music. I find writing a release. I am very strong willed. I am not the nicest person, but this is me! At time I have trouble dealing with certain people and scenarios because of who I am. Certain issues I don’t see as a big deal. That is because I see thing as black or white. There is no gray area with me. I feel many, no most, things aren’t as complicated as we make them. We choose to hold on to it or draw it out so that they are complicated. These things annoy me. I know that is how some folks operate, but it is hard for me to deal with or even hear about it. I want to just scream “Get over it already” or “Just stop talking to them