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It is amazing how much your life can change in one second, one moment, one hour, one day, one week, one month, one year.

One can mean the difference between life and death, happiness and sadness, celebrating and mourning, winning and losing, bad and good. Your choices are what you have to live with. So make them for you and no one else because tomorrow is not promised. Not promised in life, love, jobs or anything.

You can not control anything or anyone but yourself. It seems simple to believe and understand, but I think many of use think “If I do this they will do that.” In reality everyone reacts to stuff differently. You can not control what anyone else thinks, says, does or feels. You can wish, hope and pray what will and won’t happen.

Though at the end of the day each individual will do what they want. The weather will be how it is, if you have picnic planned that day or not. The world will continue to revolve while your in hurting, rejoicing, crying, partying and dying.

One second, one moment, one hour, one day, one week, one month, one year.

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